爱，需要坦诚。
在爱里没有惧怕，在爱里不怕受伤，在爱里没有自卑，在爱里没有隐藏。
若要真爱继续写下去，请坦诚。
分享我心头爱
喜欢音乐
如果我的他可以和我一起分享好音乐，是多么幸福的事儿吖！
如果我的他可以和我的朋友好好相处，是多么骄傲的事儿吖！
如果我的他可以与我并我的朋友好好一起欣赏音乐演出，是多么大的美事儿吖！
如果能不留有这些遗憾，是我最开心、渴望的事儿吖！
每个周末，就这样约会。
这……应该是我想要的生活吧！
唔……我贪心了吗？
如果我的他可以和我一起分享好音乐，是多么幸福的事儿吖！
如果我的他可以和我的朋友好好相处，是多么骄傲的事儿吖！
如果我的他可以与我并我的朋友好好一起欣赏音乐演出，是多么大的美事儿吖！
如果能不留有这些遗憾，是我最开心、渴望的事儿吖！
每个周末，就这样约会。
这……应该是我想要的生活吧！
唔……我贪心了吗？
Learning of the day - April 2013
Had a very nice learning session today. (Viewing our life from Genesis, chapter 1)
In the beginning, everything in the earth was formless and empty. God created and ordered the world from that formless and empty earth, all according to their kinds. And God had Sabbath (rest) on the seventh day.
Similarly, to have a clean or tidy house, you need to start from a messy situation, order all the things accordingly, to good, and eventually very good. Then have rest after work. (Best productivity always come from an optimum condition instead of work it out to the max.) Rest allow us to know who we are, what to do, and have a clear picture on the spot we are standing.
Not only our house, same rules apply to our working environment, society, even our country. If we are in a chaos, it's always nice to handle and manage it from messy to good, until very good. Just enjoy the duty/task being given! Here, God has shown us a very good example in Genesis, in ruling the earth/world.
Lord God is the Master and we human are the Manager. So, try not to be so proud to be a manager because things will still work out even without us. Take care of ourselves to be in the optimum condition, and learn to be humble.
Journey to Intimacy by Dr Wei-jen Huang, chapter 2 & 3
Love bank which affects the brain Limbic System.
Save your $$ into the love bank using 5 different language of love: Quality time, Gift, Acts of service, Physical touch, & Words of affirmation. (Priority differ with each everyone.)
Different people has different language of love, so save your $$ in a correct way. The proper expression of love would be doing what the other party's language of love instead of our own.
Love bank saving exercise: Two party holding hands, look into each eyes, telling each other their gratitude/words of affirmation, & hug hug.
Most couples have very contradict characters. These people can still be together because they are able to live together with the differences among each other. According to the findings from Evolutionary Psychology, there's five typical reactions that can be observed when conflicts occur: Fight, Submit, Freeze, Flight, & Collaborate. Virginia Satir also stated five different actions that people will take: Blamer, Placator, Super Reasonable/Computer, Irrelevant/Mascot, & Congruent. All these reactions can effect a relationship. However, we should see all these reactions actually origins from fear of being hurt. Therefore, understanding the true reason of any of the above reaction is the key to unlock your conflict in any relationship.
My language of love:
1 Quality time
2 Physical touch
3 Words of affirmation
4 Acts of service
5 Gift
How about yours? ...^-^...
In the beginning, everything in the earth was formless and empty. God created and ordered the world from that formless and empty earth, all according to their kinds. And God had Sabbath (rest) on the seventh day.
Similarly, to have a clean or tidy house, you need to start from a messy situation, order all the things accordingly, to good, and eventually very good. Then have rest after work. (Best productivity always come from an optimum condition instead of work it out to the max.) Rest allow us to know who we are, what to do, and have a clear picture on the spot we are standing.
Not only our house, same rules apply to our working environment, society, even our country. If we are in a chaos, it's always nice to handle and manage it from messy to good, until very good. Just enjoy the duty/task being given! Here, God has shown us a very good example in Genesis, in ruling the earth/world.
He says, “Be still, and know that I am God.
你们要休息 要知道我是神。
Lord God is the Master and we human are the Manager. So, try not to be so proud to be a manager because things will still work out even without us. Take care of ourselves to be in the optimum condition, and learn to be humble.
Journey to Intimacy by Dr Wei-jen Huang, chapter 2 & 3
Love bank which affects the brain Limbic System.
Save your $$ into the love bank using 5 different language of love: Quality time, Gift, Acts of service, Physical touch, & Words of affirmation. (Priority differ with each everyone.)
Different people has different language of love, so save your $$ in a correct way. The proper expression of love would be doing what the other party's language of love instead of our own.
Love bank saving exercise: Two party holding hands, look into each eyes, telling each other their gratitude/words of affirmation, & hug hug.
Most couples have very contradict characters. These people can still be together because they are able to live together with the differences among each other. According to the findings from Evolutionary Psychology, there's five typical reactions that can be observed when conflicts occur: Fight, Submit, Freeze, Flight, & Collaborate. Virginia Satir also stated five different actions that people will take: Blamer, Placator, Super Reasonable/Computer, Irrelevant/Mascot, & Congruent. All these reactions can effect a relationship. However, we should see all these reactions actually origins from fear of being hurt. Therefore, understanding the true reason of any of the above reaction is the key to unlock your conflict in any relationship.
My language of love:
1 Quality time
2 Physical touch
3 Words of affirmation
4 Acts of service
5 Gift
How about yours? ...^-^...
一个人
时差？没关系。
我可以一个人吃饭。
我可以一个人回家。
怎么可以我不知道你忙的是什么？你不清楚我做的是什么？！
我可以一个人回家。
我可以一个人听歌。
我可以一个人逛街。
我绝对可以自己打发一个人的时间，但请别让我寂寞太久……
Casual sing: You gonna miss me [Pitch Perfect]
Sing along with the background song from youtube =)
I've got my ticket for long way 'round
Two bottles of whiskey for the way
And I sure would like some sweet company
and I'm leaving tomorrow, whatdya say?
When I'm gone, when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me by my hair
You're gonna miss me everywhere
And I know you're gonna miss me when I'm gone
I've got my ticket for the long way 'round
The one with the prettiest view
It's got mountains, it's got rivers
It's got sights to give you shivers
But it sure would be prettier with you
When I'm gone, when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone
You're gonna miss me by my walk
You're gonna miss me by my talk
You're gonna miss me when I'm gone
Happy Birthday to our Dr Lim =)
Together with my friends all under the same supervisor, we made this video for her birthday celebration. We purposely made our progress report meeting on her birthday, however it has been postpone... Anyway, we are happy that she still like our surprise! Hehe...
A shorter version prepared but not presented.
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